I didn’t have to go through this alone. Someone else already has and we can learn from one another. I wouldn’t be where I am today without the Linked by Pink support group in Erie. I was reluctant at first but a good friend said I think it would be good for you, and I’ll go with you if that helps. She’s not a breast cancer survivor but just said “come on, let’s go.”
I’ve learned a lot from the women in that group, including from some who have passed. They are incredible in the way they take the focus away from themselves and equip their families to move on without them. They keep on giving even when facing the end of life.
All the women in the group share things coming up and they spoke very highly of the PBCC and especially the conference. I decided to try for a conference scholarship because of my financial struggle at the time. When I learned a scholarship was granted to me, I felt like a queen! It meant that much to me. My favorite part of the wonderful day was hearing Dr. Emily Conant, who won the research award for her work on 3D mammography. I want all mammography facilities to have someone like her on their team! She was a great example of the many people who are fighting on our behalf, and she was so humble! I also enjoyed learning about the legislative changes that happen in the House and the Senate and how these things move forward. It takes a team effort. You have to have supportive people like that in your corner moving your initiatives forward.
I found a lump in my breast during breast cancer awareness month in 2013 on my 26th wedding anniversary. You see so many reminders but something caught my eye on Facebook and I felt around and told my husband “I think I just found a lump.” I credit social media and the friend who posted that, because I caught it at an early stage.
My job has also helped me through this. I’ve worked in a psychiatric mental health treatment facility for the past 17 years. Trauma is a big part of people’s lives, and when you’re diagnosed there certainly is trauma. After being diagnosed and approaching menopause, it all affects you. It’s a struggle. So I like to physically move. It makes me feel healthy, and eating well and moving lessens the effects of symptoms. My granddaughter was born during the time I was going through treatment, and I plan to be around for her!