Diane Funston-Dillon
Harrisburg, PA

Diane Funston-Dillon was diagnosed with Infiltrating Ductal Carcinoma in October of 1996 at age 42. She found the lump through a breast self-exam. Here is her story.

Q: What was your initial reaction to the diagnosis?

A: I couldn't think straight, and my thoughts were all about dying. I had no risk factors! I had a thousand questions, but was afraid to ask even one. I wanted to disappear or turn back time. Dread and terror consumed my life.

Q: How were you treated?

A: Lumpectomy with axillary node dissection. Later I had a mastectomy, coupled with the placement of a tissue expander to start the process of reconstruction. Then came six cycles of chemotherapy, followed by five years of Tamoxifen.

Q: What was the hardest part of this process?

A: Navigating chemotherapy was definitely the hardest part of my journey with breast cancer. My treatments left me ill and unable to work. I found it unbearable to deal with the loss of my hair. I felt like I was stranded in a barren and foreign land where no one else spoke my language.

Q: How did you get yourself out of this dark time?

A: I kept reminding myself that if my hair was falling out, then the chemo must be working. My hair indeed grew back, this time a different color, texture, and it was curly. I tell everyone that this was the most expensive perm I've ever had! I also joined a support group and found encouragement and empathy among them.

Q: Describe your recovery process.

A: Recovery is slow and dreary. Sometimes it seems endless. Doctor appointments will be part of my life for many years. I have gotten on with my life, but I never forget - not for one day - my experience with cancer.

Q: How has cancer changed you?

A: I know I am a stronger person. I've met some very special people. I appreciate things I used to take for granted. I am grateful for every birthday and I surround myself with positive, happy people. I slow down and take time for quiet gratitude each day.

Q: What have you learned from breast cancer?

A: I learned that I could help another person through diagnosis and treatment. I've learned to tell everyone of the importance of self breast exams, clinical exams and mammograms. I believe God gave me this diagnosis for a reason. I may not understand the reason, but helping another along the way makes the path easier for both of us. And if someone tells me that they got a mammogram because of me, then my cancer has served some purpose.

Q: Any advice for newly-diagnosed women?

A: Facing breast cancer involves fear, distress, courage and hope. Armed with knowledge, a positive attitude and a will to survive, we can prevail, overcome and even triumph.

Diane serves on the PBCC Board of Directors, co-facilitates a breast cancer support group, and works for KePRO, a peer review organization that protects the rights and health of persons on Medicare in PA.

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