I should have been more in tune with my body but I was not. My mother had breast cancer in the exact same spot I did. In April 2013 I went to my doctor at Lankenau Hospital for a routine check-up and I mentioned to her that I felt an ache under my arm. Instead of saying come back for a mammogram, she sent me straight upstairs to the oncologist who did a CT scan and then a biopsy. Four days later the results came back: stage 3 breast cancer. My doctor really saved my life that day by sending me directly to the oncologist.
My family and friends were an excellent support system. Over six months of chemo, friends came with me, sometimes six, seven, or eight of us at a time! In fact, the hospital gave us a private room. We laughed and joked and called it our own chemo party.
Eventually I needed someone to comfort me in a way that only survivors can. I started Traci’s B.I.O. (Beautiful Inside and Out) as a beautification organization. The mission of the organization is to help women maintain a level of normalcy while going through treatment. When my hair fell out I really wasn’t prepared for it. I needed someone to teach me how to put eyebrows on! I knew that I couldn’t be the only one struggling with these things, so I started helping other ladies with the things our doctors don’t talk about … because they’re busy saving our lives. Someone told me they’d been following me on social media and asked if I’d like to tell my story but I didn’t think I was all that interesting. So she said how about a collaboration with the ladies you’ve helped out. I asked them, and that turned into my first book of 13 stories called the Pink Sister Chronicles.
I ignored all the signs and when I finally did something it was stage 3 breast cancer. We need to know and listen to our bodies and take care of ourselves. Whatever inner strength you think you don’t have, get it. There are people to help you but you must reach out. You can’t do it by yourself. And remember, sometimes you have to use your inner beauty to shine when you’re not feeling beautiful on the outside.